************ ********* ********* ******* The 1st Secret - The Power Of Thought ************ ********* ********* ******* Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships . Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her. ************ ********* ********* ******* The 2nd Secret - The Power Of Respect ************ ********* ********* ******* You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?" ************ ********* ********* ** The 3rd Secret - The Power Of ...